Breathing Easier
Biography / Legal System / Politics / Rape

Breathing Easier

the Michigan legislature managed to do one thing that I found comforting and validating. They did one thing, probably in spite of themselves, that reassured me that what I endured in my past was, in fact, a crime. And for that, I’m thankful. What was this thing they did? They simply declared that strangling or smothering a person is a crime worth 10 years in prison. Continue reading

Medical Exams After Sexual Assault: What you need, and what you need to know
Rape / Recovery / Volunteering

Medical Exams After Sexual Assault: What you need, and what you need to know

Though I have been sexually assaulted three times, I have never reported the attack or sought medical treatment. The first time, I was too young to know what had happened. The second, there was no penetration and I just wanted to forget about it. And the third, I thought I had to go to the police first, and I didn’t want to go to the police because I felt sure I would be blamed for what had happened.
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